6/2(2+1)= 1 or 9

Hehe... there is a very confusing maths question.

6/2(2+1)=

What do you think the answer is?

1 or 9 ?

First, (2+1) = 3, so it becomes 6/2(3)=

Ermmm... should it be 6/ 2 = 3 x 3= 9?

Or 2(3)=6, and 6/6=1?

Haha... Do it left to right or right to left???

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SMK Rajah Abdullah bullies show thefailure of the current education system!!!

Another School Bully case again!!!
It is a proof of the failure of the current education system.During my school times we heard about gangsters or bullies in schools. They were only a group of boys who always escaped class, scold people, etc.
But in this video that i saw!! Those bullies were girls!!

 

SMK Rajah Abdullah Bully Video Clip

It was originally uploaded by a student but then was deleted, however the technology is too sophisticated that you can actually find the video on many FB users.
Girls nowadays are getting worse and worse. The victim who was crying the whole 3 minutes in the video, was being slapped, hit, straggled, and the bullies even cut her hair!!!
These group of girls called themselves as "SISTERS" and of course they have their own nicknames.
Spagetti, Beehoon, Vermicile Noddles, and Normal Noodles.
What?? So lame... Are students nowadays too bored?
Someone from the Page posted the links to all the 4 girls' blogs.

 

唯爱雪宜

They called themselves good sisters, but now they all pushed the blames on others..

 

冬粉

 

意大利面

 

剪人头发！！！我们来给她们红！！！！来干她！骂他！来插她够够大大力

 There are currently more than 52,300 fans like this page!! This is only within less than 48 hours!! Oh My God!!

As a summary, everyone's comments are all scolding the girls, cursing the girls, or wanted to revenge for the victims, etc. Yes, this case really enraged everyone. Not to say i am not angry. I do, but sadness more than anger!
I pity all of them, not only the victims.

If you were to read the girls blog, you will realise tat they actually live in their own world. The are all self-centered. This society is sick. The education system fails thoroughly.
There is no "L-O-V-E" in their dictionary. All they think about is what others have done wrongly, how bad others treated them, etc. They enjoyed bullying others. She is only in Form One, and she is full of hatred. All this is very much related to her family background, how her parents educate her. Read this:

 

Hate the mom

 Even when the mother talked to her also in the tone of ""THREATENING".If you don't sleep, or if i still see your light on, you are dead!

How parents talk, or educate their children really plays a very important role now. Children/ teenagers now are not like 10 or 20 years ago, where parents can still hit them, threaten them, etc. They were way back too NAIVE, unlike children now. They think differently, they live in a different world. Friends in school are the best, they spend 95% of their conversation with friends.
Parents out there!!!!
Do you ask how your children feel?
How much do you care about them? As long as they "EAT", "SLEEP", go to school, do their homework, that's all!!!?? Children are actually parents reflection.
From the day she is in your womb, she is already observing and learning everything you do.

"CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE!!!!"

Oh My God... My last post was in October, which was my 1 and only 1 post in that month...
Yeah, i had been very busy recently.

Just got back from Brunei, attended Lung & Grace's wedding in Miri last Friday., a very special wedding reception with mixture of both Chinese and Iban Tradition..

Ermm,so many weddings reception recently, My cousin also just got married the week before, and this is taken with my little Blacberry.. This is during the Tea ceremony cum Ang Pow session...

This is Benjamin's wedding reception at Ocean Seafood in Kota Kinabalu, Sabah.... Another very special Cino-Kadazan/ Dusun Wedding...

Guess what, because of the flight problem on Thursday, i missed my bestie's wedding yesterday noon... *sob*sob* Aileen, i'm really sorry, i thought it was last night so i could go directly from Airport. If not i would have get a flight in Miri on Saturday... sorry again~ Anyway, she's indeed the prettiest Bride in Malay Traditional Costume...

Ok, that's all for the latest update. Will try to blog about all the nice and interesting places or food, and about these special weddings reception real soon.....
Oh, before i forget, there's another wedding reception to attend on this Sunday...

Do Not Buy Jade when you tour 以後旅遊别買“玉”

This morning i received a forwarded mail and i was so shocked!!!

以後旅遊一定不要買“玉”

"Do not buy Jade while on tour" 

很多朋友对翡翠的知识并不是太了解，有时候认为很实惠的买了个宝贝，殊不知是买了个危害，钱花了无所谓，但是戴在身上的却是会长期释放毒素及放射性元素的高致癌“宝贝”，下面先让各位看看恐怖的翡翠洗底过程： 

Many people do not have the real knowledge about jade. Sometime they thought they have got a good buy on a rare or precious jade, and they did not realised that they have actually purchase a dangerous stone that will endanger their health or life due to the chemicals that used to process this fade jade and the release of the chemical 

reaction to human after a long term wearing. 

Read the information below:
俗称的石头料，没水、没底、没色！Normal type of stone , without sign of water, no base and colourless!

 恐怖！用强酸以及包含大量放射元素的化学制剂浸泡石料半个月！

Horrible thing happen ! They used a very strong acidic and strong chemical to soak the stone for half a month!

化学物洗涤后的效果！

After chemical reaction, the stone have change its look!

对洗过底的石料人工加色

Additional work on the stone after chemical soaking.

进入真空高压注胶机，

Placing the fade Jade into a machine for high pressure injection.

注胶过程同样需要几天时间！

This high pressure injection will take a few days to complete!

半成品出炉，原来的毛料已经有水色了！

Semi finished products , its look has changed !

成品展示！一般市场价叫个7、8万，还价就卖！

Finished products exhibite in the market, some pricing up to 70 - 80K per piece.  Fade good sold after a price negotiation.

Oh No!! I bought many jades when i went to Yunnan, China few years ago. Yes, with very expensive price some more but i thought it was good natural stone and will promote good health, etc....

Thank God due to my "Cho-Lo" nature, that the jade had a crack so i just kept in the drawer and never wear it anymore because i was afraid that i might break the whole thing.

Now i will say "Thank God!"

ON THE MOVE- STRIVE!!

My last post was written when i was still in KL for my training, which was 17 days ago...
I have never abandoned my blog for so long, but i am too tied up. There are so many things that i wanna share with all of you. So many nice places that i have been to, so many nice eating places that i went, etc.
However, i am soooo sorry, guys.
It's been really a very busy month since August till now. 24 hours a day seems not to be enough for me at the moment. Ever since i decided to come out of my comfort zone.
I love marketing, promotions and events planning but why did i quit? Well, maybe this is one of the reasons other than i need more time for my Autumn, I need to have a breakthrough for myself.
I need to strive through the bottleneck. It is time. I cannot wait anymore. The ceiling will be gone once we strive to break it.
For my new job, for my secret projects, for my baby, etc. I just have to be "ON THE MOVE" always...
I was in Korea, KL, Kuching, KL, Kuching, and then Miri, Brunei, back to Kuching again....
I'll be going to KK for another buddy's wedding next week. Yeah, this month onwards i have at least 5 weddings to attend... September 18th, October 23rd, November, December 18th x 2 weddings so i think hubby and i will have to split to 2 receptions.
Anyway, I am not complaining at all. I am just glad that i have decided to change. To make a difference in my life. To strive harder when we still have the energy. Before it is too late.... So, i feel very contented. I am very happy. I hope anyone of you out there who is indecisive about anything, just remember that to CHANGE needs courage. It will definitely be different when you change.
Choose a job you like and you never have to work a day in your life!
OMG, i'm like mumbling in the middle of the night... Just an update about myself...
Good night!!

Love is in the air-Jalan Alor, Kuala Lumpur.

The other day we were heading to the Town with Adran and Michelle, so we had our late diner at Jalan Alor, Bukit Bintang area.

Jalan Alor, this is the place where i often would eat dinner whenever we come to KL. Most of the time i would just book the hotels around Bukit Bitang area which is the most convenient.I either stayed in Capital Hotel, Alpha Genesis Hotel (used to be Alson Genesis Hotel), Park Royal Hotel, or whichever available with the cheaper rate...

We were sitting right opposite the Bak-GUa Stalls. Surounded by smoke from the satay stall, and all the frying and cooking, also the BBQ of the Bak-Gua. But, hmm...smell nice!

We were all super duper hungry so we quickly ordered.

Spicy Clams or Lala.

Oyster with Eggs, very crispy and scrumptious. RM10 per plate.

Belacan Kangkung...

                                                                            Mongolian Pork

Dinner was great since we were very hungry, it is a very common eating place that everyone knows so i don;t have much to say about this place... Except for the scene below...
This scene was very touching... 3 of them are all handicapped, but they each played a very impotant role. The guy who could walk push their trolley, the other two who were on the wheel chair could sing very well were singing to entertain the eating crowd. They came from the other end of Jalan Alor till this side of the road. They were physically handicapped but they were so vey independent. They did not beg for donation, instead the actually put in the efforts to earn their money. I salute them.

I was very touched. Many people walked over and gave them money. There are still many loving and kind-hearted people in this world. Normally, whenever i see those deaf and dumb people who sell tissue or soft toys, i will give them the money eventhough i din't need the things they sell. Or sometimes, when i see those very very old lady who hardworkingly bring fruits, cookies, or any other things for sale, i will also give them money eventhough i don't want to buy anything. I will always ask questions like where are their children???
There is only 1 situation he i don't give any donation. For those beggars who are very physically healthy like us, i looked down on them becuse they are just lazy people.

AS i walked over to put in some notes into their box. I was praying that more people would give them money since they worked so hard. I hope if anyone of you who met them elsewhere in KL area, please help them.

A-N-T-S

A for ANTS!!!

Yea, A for Ant >>it  is in one of my baby's ABC reading chart.

In school we always read about how hardworking the ants are, and they are always very good in teamwork, and many more other stories in moral classes....

But, in real life, hate them...

I had some bread inside my files. 

I left the file on the table for less than 1 hour and went for my shower, the troops came..

Ants are everywhere on the table, from donno where from the wall, 

they all busily rushed in and out of my file...

ARGHhh!!

I should say that, if anyone who could hire the ants to work for them, for sure their business will expand speedily. But, seriously, i hate them for being too hardworking....

Ants are definitely a disaster for me. These ants are too determined and never give up. Even if the packaging is totally sealed, eg: Maggie mee, or other packet food, they were attacked. 

Terrible!!!

Home Sweet Home

Home Sweet Home~
I left home on 1st August for some trainings in KL, I missed home so much especially my hubby and baby. I knew it was gonna end very soon, so i will just have to bare with it a little bit more.

Everyday i would call home and talked to Autumn, but i relised that she did not really wanna talk to me since last few days. Then, she was like totally ignored me. She even said:" I don''t want mommy!" She repeatedly saying that and my heart was like all crumbled together at that second. Every single sentence that came from her mouth shattered my heart into million of pieces.."NO-WAY!" I said to myself. My baby must be really sad and did not understand why did the mommy left her for so many days. Last month, when i went Korea for  days, she was okay. But, definitely not this time, 10 days duration is way too long...

The next day i called to the school and talked to the teacher, she told me that Autumn kept saying i don;t want mommy to them in school. the teachers tried to explain to her. But she said i want daddy, i don't want mommy..... I was even more and more tortured with those words...

That's why i made up my mind, i must go home this Friday night. Even if i have to spend about RM500 for my ticket to fly home for only 2 nights, it is still worth it as long as i can see my baby. I must explain to her that i was working. I must make her understand and then be happy again..

Here i am back at home, i hugged my baby and she was like totally speechless. All the way from the arrival hall till the carpark, she did not say a word except for hugging me tightly with her face on my shoulder. I know she missed me. That's why she was mad at me. Eventhough, she kept silent i knew she understood what i said. So, i kept talking to her explaining everything. I even sang all her favourite songs, and then finally in the car she called me:"mommy", in a very very soft and shy voice.

I passed her the books i bought for her, she was happily holding the books, flipping them, and told the daddy about her new books... Reached home, i finally heard her talking, laughing, and reading her new books.

Must spend every second wisely with her for the next 48 hours before flying off again....
It needs a lot of efforts if we want to get a balance in our career and family life...

Sick + boredom = homesick!!

I was totally "OFFLINE" since yesterday afternoon. I could not stop sneezing, and then started to feel the ache all over my body. i knew i got flu. Maybe it was because of the rain during lunch break yesterday? or maybe because i was too cold coz i forgot to wear my jacket at he bowling centre at Mid Valley.
Whatever.....
It doesn't matter coz nothing could change the reality no matter anyhow i am able to recall..
Still, i am sick, ill, flu, fever......

Thanks to Nicholas, as he was kind enough to search for a pharmacy with us around U1 area and then Giant, until i bought my flu pills from Guardian.. After i took the pill, i silent my noisy BB and began my long-hour of sleep starting 4pm till today around 5pm.
In between, when i was hungry i think i did wake up to drink water or milo, and then took pills and continue sleeping.... that was a long 25 hours of sleep....
and of course this morning, there were tonnes of miscall, msg, notifications, emails, etc....

Thank God i am feeling better now....
Also, if not because of the ilness, i think i won't rest.
and also have the time to post my Korean trip blogs and pictures into FB...
I had not rest well since many months ago...
Im always on the move, travel, work, my baby, my family, my secret project, my blogs etc....
There are just too many things that need to be accomplished!! i cannot waste even a ingle second!!
Well, now....I miss home... I miss my hubby.. i miss my baby....

Sending off a friend to Germany-Norma

Tomorrow, im flying off to KK, transiting to Seoul, South Korea.

 I always have phobia in packing my luggage before any trips...

Im afraid that i might forget my passport, forget something that i need, or scared that i will be over weight, etc...

So, i will update a bit before i continue packing...

Last week, i sent off Norma at KIA.. She paid more than RM500 for her 3kgs of excess baggage... Gossh... anyway, this is some reminiscence of her stay in Kuching...

 Other than the overweight luggage checked in, this hand carry one is not any lighter as well..

Germany vs England that night. Jaana & Mareike were in their German Jersey to support Germany!!

Autumn and Tante Norma..

Last camwhore with Norma in Kuching, Sarawak.

Kim Kim arrived in time.. A bit late but better than not coming..

Time really flies... The 6 months internship is over, as if we have just met yesterday... 

Gossh...

So, i've gathered all the sweet memories in these pictures...

Squeezing in the car, going to the pool party..

Fabienne's skillful self-taken picture!

Ooh-la-la~ Someone is very tipsy..

In my living room..

Water Park....

Our dinner at My Restaurant..

Super model pictures at Hilton...

Happy moments at the beach...

Well, in life many people come and go.. 

However, if it is not by the arrangement of God, we might not meet. Now that Norma is back in Germany, really wish her all the best, especially her preparation. for her Big Day.. All the best!!

Hope to see you soon...